Having a visitor come to Madagascar was wonderful in
so many ways, but especially because it was my sweet sister, Stephanie. One
thing that I enjoyed was seeing Madagascar through her fresh eyes. She did a
wonderful job at being adaptable and flexible with our schedule and unexpected
situations. Plus, it was entertainment for me because she’s absolutely
hilarious. Her commentary had me frequently (and uncontrollably) laughing. Her
new observations reminded me to take a step back every once in a while and
allow myself to take note of things that maybe don’t seem as “vaovao” (new)
anymore.
So this blog is dedicated to some of the comments
Stephanie had about Madagascar, as well as my own “fun facts” that perhaps you
didn’t know. I also asked her to send me some observations in her own words.
That way you can hear from her voice about how she saw Madagascar.
Stephanie:
From the moment I stepped off the plane it felt like a
different place. By morning, it was like a different world.
I needed to get a short-term visa, I needed some help
filling out my info at the airport so a couple of nice guys "helped
me". Turns out you're suppose to tip them.....I didn't. Then you wait in
line for an hour while everyone's passports get stamped. The passports pass by
4 different people who stamp, sniff and do all sorts of things to your passport
before you actually get it returned. Then you catch your bags and head
out the airport as you are faced with hundreds of Malagasy folks waiting for
their guests. Your sister greets you {That’s
ME!} and
tells you to "smile and wave to the people". {Which she did –
hahaha!}
After she has a good laugh about that, you think to yourself, "where am
I?".
You drive down streets that look like abandoned alley
ways...but they're streets. Then you go to sleep under a net because, although
all the windows have bars, none of them have screens. After you settle in bed
you think to yourself "Where am I?".
Morning comes and a whole new world is opened up to you as
the reality of where you are settles in. You are in a land where a security
system is a locked gate, an 8 foot wall with the top lined with glass and the
outside perimeter is surrounded by large thorn bushes. Your meals take 2 hours
to prepare because they make everything from scratch and it's all cooked over
coal. What's a microwave? And how would I get enough energy to use one if I had
one? If you want to travel anywhere it's by foot or bus. If you go by foot
there's always the danger of stubbing your toe on the uneven cobble stone,
walking in dirt and mud puddles or getting hit by a bus- because it appears you
are now as important as a possum crossing the street. If you travel by bus you
are crammed into a bus in which the max capacity was maxed out 7 people
ago....and more are coming.
* When I picked her up from the airport, there were people trying to help us with our luggage (in exchange for money). I spoke to them in Malagasy saying that we didn’t need their help, that we were strong and could do it ourselves, but thanked them for their effort. Stephanie was a bit taken aback by my newfound ability to (roughly) speak a different language “It’s weird for me to hear you speak a new language. It’s like you’re just making those words up…. I feel like you’re a different person.” It’s true. I know I have changed. I don’t exactly know how just yet, but I can feel it.
* The frequency here is Ariary. They use bills 99% of the time (although there are coins for 10, 20, and 50 ariary which are worth virtually nothing – but you can get a piece of hard candy for 50 ar.) The 100 and 200 ariary bill is equivalent to about 5 and 10 cents, respectfully, and gets passed around a lot. A lot of passing and not a lot of hand washing causes these bills to get quite dirty - so much so that you can hardly tell their original color of the bill. (Each bill has different color and/or size). When Stephanie first saw a 200 ar bill I had laying around, she said with surprise:
“It looks like somebody whipped their BUTT with this!” Needless to say, this was one of those comments that had me bent over laughing.
Top: What a 200 ariary usually looks like. Bottom: What a FRESH 200 ariary looks like |
On Christmas morning at the Catholic fiagonana
(church), there was a manger scene set up to the left of the Alter (complete
with a white baby Jesus, naturally). During the offering, there wasn’t a smooth
system of approaching the altar as their usually is. It seemed more complicated
than it needed to be. Steph and I were just “letting it happen” figuring we
would never understand why things were taking longer than usual. And then Steph
said “Look, Sarah! They’re laying their money in front of the manger”. Turns
out, it wasn’t about making a “smooth, easy, single file line”, it was about
giving reverence to the baby Jesus (despite his unrealistic pigment of skin).
* Stephanie and I took several types of busses while
she was here. We took something like 13 bus trips both in my community and for
our travels (and that doesn’t include all of our return trips). It’s always an interesting
experience, riding the bus in Madagascar – it’s practically a sport.
Anyways, one of the most memorable bus rides was
during one of our bus trips to a national park (it’s only 3ish hours from Tana,
but it took us 3 busses to get there). Both Stephanie and I were squished in
the middle seats (she was sitting in front of me), while our knees were pulled
up uncomfortably close to our chest because under our feet were huge sacks of rice.
Coming off the bus she said “I can’t feel my legs!
And I’m pretty sure I was sitting on an old man that whole time!”
Usually we strap our luggage to the top of a van while traveling. But this was a “city bus” in Tana, so we had our laps full of our belongings. Needless to say, it wasn’t the most comfortable. And it made snacking quite a challenge.
Strapping on the luggage to the bus |
* Simple pleasures become simpler. It's an exciting day when
you turn the sink on and water comes out or if you're able to keep the light on
when it rains because the power has stayed on! You sit next to a child on the
bus (so much room!).
* The people are poor by economic terms, but they are rich in
culture, hospitality and love. There was a woman who worked/ran? a cheap hotel
(the room cost $3 a night). The place was dirty and sketchy but when we asked
her where the ocean was she WALKED us there with the 2 children she was caring
for. She not only walked us there but stayed with us to show us around the
beach so we could play in the water for a while. What hospitality! What
kindness!
The hospitality of the Malagasy was
overwhelming, especially when I first got here. It is common to find polite
people in my community who are interested in learning about who I am, where I come
from, and practice their English with me. It also helps that they are patient
with the Malagasy I speak to them.
* There is beauty in Madagascar. The rainforest, mountains,
rice patties - it's lovely if you get a chance to see it. But there is also
beauty in the people. Yet, how is it that you can find a beautiful view of a
river and rice patties then see that they dump loads of trash along the river
bank? Then your eyes shift to the two young boys swimming down the
river....real life!
I am constantly surprised with the
splendor of Madagascar’s landscapes. Being in the city isn’t the most
attractive, but even just an hour out of the city you can be in the midst of
breathtaking mountains/hills. {Disclaimer: being a Minnesotan, any high
altitude seems like a mountain to me}. And I feel like I have so much more Mada
to see!
* Things are more random, everything is a process, and people
work so hard.
Random: they sell white dolls when all their children are
brown. They had Christmas scenery set up so you could take a photo with it {the
props on the set were random knick knacks like stuffed animals, dirty plastic
toys – but ALWAYS some sort of Santa Clause}, and elves on
stilts. Their outfits don't match, it is 90 degrees and that man's wearing a
winter coat - is he honestly cold? And why did that woman just drink out of
that jar, dump it out and sell it to us?? {inside
joke}
Stepanie loving on a plastic Santa |
People work so hard: It is not uncommon for people of all
ages to walk around without any shoes on. You will see women who carry their
children on their back and a basket of items on their head as they walk down
the street without shoes on their feet. Young boys will carry bundles of wood,
or you might see them pushing and pulling carts of goods uphill; you can tell
they use all their strength because they not only will push with their arms but
their head as well.
There are ALWAYS people up before the sun rises. And
if you’re like mama (my supervisor), you’re up at 4am, work all day, eat dinner
at 8pm and then go to bed. The Malagasy are an inspiration to me in so many
ways, but especially their work ethic.
* After having lunch with the Madagascar country coordinators, Austin and Tanya, Steph said: “Sarah, Austin and Tanya are Da Bomb!”
Self explanatory. Stephanie and I met up with Lee and surprised Austin & Tanya
by Christmas Caroling for them Christmas Eve morning. We spent the morning
chatting, making fake snow, and eating Christmas cookies. It was such a
blessing for me to be able to share a part of my heart (Stephanie) with people who
are so essential to my wellbeing here. J When we got home, Steph told me how lucky I
am to have such awesome coordinators. Efa mahay aho, Steph (I already know).
We were REALLY excited about eating
gushers (one of the gifts Steph gave me) Austin, Tanya, Stephanie, Me, and Lee.
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Those are just some of the comments and observations
from Stephanie. I’m sure she’d love to share more stories if you ask her about
them… like the creepy Santa we met. Haha! Good (& awkward) times! J
We laughed, we cried, we sang Christmas songs as we
walked along the beach, we made random friends, we danced in the street (wait… that
was only me), we spoke Malagasy, we ate delicious & weird food, we walked
through a knee deep river of mud and debris in the pouring rain (ask Stephanie
about that one too!), we played with Marzette and Solange, we bickered (we’re
sisters – it’s gonna happen), we loved, and we greatly missed the rest of our
family.
Here are some other highlights of our time together:
Monkeying around |
Snacking on nanners |
Chillin with the ring tails |
Dancing in the waves of the Indian Ocean! |
Enjoying jackfruit |
Karaoke with Hannah, another YAGM volunteer |
Loving Marzette, Solange and Flaviette as they say goodbye to Stephanie at the airport |
Thanks again, Stephanie, for coming and experiencing my Mada life.
Love ya, mean it!